Secret To Being Happy
Do any of us know what makes us happy? Money, spouse,girlfriend/boyfriend? Or is it your best friend? Are any of theses choices right. Let us take a look.
Did you say money? Most people do.Between wealth and being without funds being wealthy is in first place. When you have money you can relieve some of the stress of your everyday existence. It is very comfortable to know you can meet your house payments, car payments, food, electric, heat and phone.
Having a grand home is a fantastic feeling. This is what you look forward to all day long. A time to relax, unwind and enjoy in a soothing atmosphere. Our cars are a matter of concern too. One that runs very dependable and does not break ever two minutes. Especially on a deserted highway. That can sometimes be terrifying and very stressful..
How about your spouse? Does she make you happy when she is with you? I hope so, but in this day and age not too many stay together long term. Most spouses also work so they have their own lives to live. How about girlfriend/boyfriend? People change these like they change their socks. As far as best friends go we all move a lot and lose track of each other.
What is the answer? None of the above. There is only one person who can help you be happy and he is inside of you. Do not get me wrong there are some good feelings in having spouse, cars, homes, etc, but they are usually temporary. When you get up in the early dawn look in the mirror and say “I intend to be happy today. I will handle all challenges that come my way and be happy in spite of them. My happiness is a choice that I make.”
The first thing to do is to take complete responsibility for what happens in your life. This is the best way to eliminate the blame game. It is self deprecating and does not help. Today take responsibility to be happy.
Commit to success,
Want to find out more about emotions, then visit Cydne Buckley’s site on how to choose the best emotional well being for your needs.
