The Science Of Picking Up Women
Keen to pick up women but clueless where to start?
The following useful hints will put you on the path toward meeting your dream woman. Here’s a bit of practical advice for IMMEDIATE success with women. If you follow this, it’ll work for you IMMEDIATELY… First let’s talk about what’s NOT important for picking up women
You DON’T need a lean muscular physique with come to bed good looks.
The majority of men make this enormous error in thinking. Do you realize that some 85% of women place way more importance on how a man makes them FEEL, as opposed to obsessing over how he actually LOOKS. So if you’re still insecure about your looks, don’t be! There’s absolutely hope for you.
It’s not about how rich you are or how nice your car is!
I know dozens of guys who don’t drive a great car (heck some of them don’t own any kind of car), and spend less than $40 on average when they go out on a date. And they get LOTS of women. If she’s attracted to you, she won’t care what you drive or how much you spend. Notice I said if she’s ATTRACTED to you! Isn’t that what you want? For her to be attracted to you?
Lastly, don’t worry about being interesting.
DON’T try to be something you’re not. You don’t need a body like Hugh Jackman, put on some exotic accent or pretend to be rich and famous to get the girl.
The truth of the matter is that there really are no excuses. None of the things that are holding you back need to hold you back when it comes to picking up women. She’s just interested in the genuine guy inside. The one with the great personality. Letting him out is easy if you just relax.
Quit thinking about yourself. How interesting you are is not important. Women don’t want to hear your impressive stories about yourself. It tells them you’re only interested in you, and that is an instant turnoff. Why not turn it around and work on being INTERESTED in HER. LISTEN to what she’s saying. Give her positive feedback. Now you’ll have her attention and she’ll LOVE you for it. Go ahead and try it.
You need practice to build your confidence.
When you first try these new tactics, go out often and talk to all the women you can. No need to go to night clubs and high pressure dating environments. You can go anywhere to meet women.
What’s important is that you get out every day and go talk to some women. With practice you’ll soon be a master of the art of picking up women.
Look and smell good.
When you’re out there gaining experience at picking up women, make the effort to look good. This is different from being good looking. This is about your clothes and your hair and the way you smell.
Find clothes that look good on you and tailor them to fit. If you’re not into fashion and don’t know where to start, ask a fashion conscious female friend to help you choose the right types of clothes. You’ll feel better about yourself which will make picking up easier.
If you want to spend money on something to help you pick up women, consider buying a good quality cologne. Women love a guy who smells good. Don’t try and save money and buy a cheap one, women will be turned off by it. Better to leave it alone altogether if you can’t afford it.
Four simple steps to every good pickup.
There’s a simple 4 step structure to every pickup that you can repeat time and time again.
Find a woman
Make the first contact
Gain Rapport
Work towards Attraction
That’s it in a nutshell. If you chose the women you want, say something to them and then build rapport with them, they will easily be attracted to you. Your task then is to get better at all four.
Now go get the girl!
Once too nervous to talk to women, the author wrote the Deluxe Course on The Art of Approaching to reveal the methods he learned by trial and error to you. Sign up for his free newsletter
